In An Instant

December 26, 2011

in Everyday life,Life Lessons

“My whole life is in that house.” That’s what Madonna Badger screamed on Christmas morning as her Connecticut house burned to the ground with her three children and her parents still trapped inside. On December 25, 2011, Ms. Badger lost her past and her legacy.

In an instant, everything for her changed.

I am humbled when I think about how the permanence our everyday life can be so transient  and how ordinary life is what keeps us afloat. We all complain about the everyday. Too many dishes in the sink. Running late for a business meeting or an evening dinner with friends. Traffic. Deadlines. Children crying. We all think we are on the edge with the mundane, but the glory is in those quotidian details.

In an instant, for every one of us, what we may take for granted, can change.

Fill yourself up with all the quiet details in your life. A cup of coffee. The morning commute. The rattling of old pipes or creaky walls in your house. The cries of your five year old’s nightmare in the middle of the night. The sometimes inconveniences of everyday life. They are details to be embraced.

In an instant. It can all change.

 

 

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1 denise December 27, 2011 at 9:16 am

Oh Rudri. This is a beautiful and timely reminder. Thank you for this.

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2 ayala December 27, 2011 at 9:19 am

Nice reminder, Rudri. Every day we need to have gratitude in our heart. Xoxo
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3 Nikole Hahn December 27, 2011 at 9:29 am

We can’t take anything here with us when we leave. So true to be grateful for the quiet moments and for the people while we have them here.
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4 Aarti Parekh Kapadia December 27, 2011 at 10:04 am

I love your insightful posts. They always ground you back to what really matters. We have to be so greatful for what we have. It’s hard to always remember that.

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5 SuziCate December 27, 2011 at 10:16 am

Thank you for this beautiful reminder, Rudri.
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6 Suzanne December 27, 2011 at 7:12 pm

Rudri,
This story inspired me to read two stories to my boys tonight and to be grateful to do so. I pray for this woman to find some comfort and strength in time.

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7 Judy December 27, 2011 at 8:01 pm

This poor woman, how horrible. There really is so much to be grateful about. Why is it so hard sometimes?
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8 Kelly December 27, 2011 at 10:28 pm

That story is tragic and heartbreaking. I can’t even imagine. You’re completely right — we have to embrace what we have while we have it.
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9 BigLittleWolf December 28, 2011 at 9:55 am

It really is about appreciation of the “extraordinary ordinary.” Why does it take the shadow of loss to remind us, all too often?
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10 C @ Kid Things December 30, 2011 at 10:57 am

Poignant and heartbreaking.
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